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Your Second Spring is a 28-day program is about telling the truth to yourself about your life. The 28-day program will help you to attain your second spring...It also have a 28-day detox program that you can follow same time or separately. The Soul Coaching© program was created by Denise Linn and my role is to guide you to find your true self...After the 28-days program your life will never be the same...















Showing posts with label well being. Show all posts
Showing posts with label well being. Show all posts

Thursday, October 20, 2011

SOUL COACHING© TRIP TO LAKE GARDA, ITALY IN MARCH 2012
























Join me on the wonderful Soul Coaching trip to Lake Garda in Italy in March 2012. Same time you can enjoy the wonderful Italian hospitality, with good food and wine. The five day program includes:


Your Second Spring program contains: the daily program start at 9:00 a.m

1. Day - Introduction to the Your Second Spring -program - Exercise about how to analyze your own life - Guided visualization (Meditation) - Lecture 1. week's the Air week program - Lecture “How the clutter and unbalance affect your living environment?” - Discussion about everyone's needs and expectations - Questions/ Answers - End of the day meditation

2. Day - Guided morning meditation - Lecture 2. week's Water week's program - Lecture “ How the emotional suppression can affect your life?” - Discussion moment - Lecture about spirit guides and visualization meditation - Plan your own future by making a collage

3. Day - Discussion and morning meditation - Lecture 3. week's Fire week's program - Lecture “How to - Lecture about the Past Lives and guided meditation - Making of the “Spirit Stick”

4. Day - Lecture about different meditation techniques and guided meditation - Lecture 4. week's Earth week's program - Your own body - Visualization meditation - Lecture “Sexuality and your body in different ages” - Discussion about the body and it's needs

5. Day - Morning discussion and guided visualization - Lecture about the Your Second Spring Detox program - Questions/ Answers - Lecture “ How to succeed in your Detox – program?” - Discussion and visualization meditation about your future

The daily program includes: Lunch that we share together With the 5 day program you will also get the 28- days Your Second Spring -program that contains Soul Coaching and Detox programs and 28 days guided meditation audio. A weekly personal guidance by Skype and access to change e-mail when ever needed. It also includes all the material to make the collage and the spirit stick. Just bring 2-3 old decoration, fashion or health magazines with you. 



Price: 1150€ per person sharing a two person bedroom. ( separate beds) includes the whole program above, food without beverage. 250€ extra for single room
For more information: www.souljoysc.com

PURCHASE MEDITATIONS ONLINE

Now you can purchase special guided visualization meditations online for 3.00€ each created by  my Australian friend Peter Keys. Get the MP3 version and enjoy the meditations on your own time. At the end of the list you can find descriptions of each meditation. Have a look here


Thursday, April 14, 2011

CAN YOU SAY NO?

Small word, BIG DIFFERENCE

Saying "no" is one of the most difficult but yet liberating thing to do. Are you a people pleaser and can't ever say "no" and then you have to do things you don't even want or like. If you are feeling overstretched and overwhelmed, it's time learnt the art to say "NO"

1. Remember that your desire to please may be linked to poor self-esteem. Consider why other people's requests always take preference over your own needs.

2.When you asked to do something, check in with yourself before answering. Ask yourself why you feel obligated to say "yes".

3. Lighten up. Saying no doesn't have to  be serious, when nobody asks you to do something that you don't want, answer to that person with laughter that, "sorry you have your skydiving course today". Laughter can diffuse a difficult situation.

4. Make a list of people to whom you have most difficulty to say "no". When confronted with one of them, try a little honesty. Explain you have been saying "yes" more often that you'd like, and that you are starting to feel a little resentful. Detail your reasons: "I feel guilty when I say "no" to your constant requests for loans. But I am a little cash-trapped myself right now".

5. Remind yourself of the worst that can happen. People might react negatively at first, but in time they will have greater respect for the clear boundaries you have established with them.

6. If your family, friends and colleges are used to you always saying "yes", they will use that every time they need something. So learn to be firm towards them and with yourself as well. Often we think that we will say "no" to something but ones in front of that person we say "yes" and why is that... What are you afraid of.  Stand up for yourself and say "no" when you want to, don't be a people pleaser. You will gain others respect sooner or later and be an example for others too, by daring to say "no".

If you think that you need to boost your self-esteem and get less fearless and gain more self-confidence and courage, then you need my Your Second Spring program to help you. It will take you in to a voyage to meet yourself and learn your full potential and you will say YES to life.  Go on my website for more details,
www.souljoysc.com

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

GET YOUR HANDS DIRTY...

The spring is here... it is time to get your hands dirty and start a small garden...It is an antidote for stress as well. A little water, some fresh air, seeds and sunlight. That's all it takes to create a restorative refuge from life's demands.
Like I mentioned gardening is the perfect antidote to stressful life. It teaches you patience, encourages optimism and, when our efforts pay off, rewards us with unexpected delight. Just 20 to 30 minutes spent pottering can restore your spirits and bring an element of calm and satisfaction to your day. And best news is you don't have to be an expert to grow you own health-giving herds.



Where to plant
Herbs love sunny spots where they aren't exposed to too much wind. A sheltered patch  of 2m x 1m on sunny side of the wall, for the urban living you can use the balcony, but if you are pressed with space, herbs also flourish  in window boxes and pots. 


What to plant
 What are your favorite herbs and which ones you use the most when cooking? Parsley, mint, basilica, rosemary, lemon balm, coriander, lavender, camomile etc. Or try other ones, you can make one pot for your culinary use, one medicinal, one aromatic and one for flowering. 

How to plant
If you don't have any pots, go to a nursery shop, where you can also find your seeds or small plants that you can replant. Buy pots that have a whole in the bottom and if you keep your pots in your balcony or inside get a plate under the pot that water does not run on the floor. On the bottom of your pots and containers put some stones or gravel and then good quality soil to ensure adequate drainage. Herbs grow best on a slightly alkaline soil, so if you think your soil is too acidic, neutralize it with some lime juice. If you are planting a bed, place large perennials for a screen. Plant annuals and low-growing herbs in the front, along with those you are likely to pick most regularly. Newly planted herbs needs lots of water, but ones they are established, they are naturally drought resistant. Water when the top 3cm of soil is dry to the touch. 

Caring for your plants
Fertilise your plants ones a month. Ask some advice from your nursery but use only organic fertilizers. 
Picking and using your herbs often means pruning time is greatly reduced.



Monday, March 14, 2011

7 WAYS RESTORE YOUR BALANCE





Feeling weighed down?


Tip the scales back to those joyous times when life meant playgrounds, puddles and plasticine. 

1. Skip Why did you ever stop?
An invigorating skip down the road has all benefits of a mini-workout with none of the seriousness.
Try it - you will exude positive energy. Hint if you are too inhibited to do it alone, take a child by the hand and skip in tandem...

2. Dance Crank up the volume and cavort. Move your body as if no one is watching. When on your own, light some candles and dance in the dark just with the candle light naked and let your body to move like you were in some kind of trans. Choose a suitable music for you, Celtic music or American Indian music can suite this type of dance. Just let go and be whole with your body, mind and soul.
Whether you are attempting the cha-cha, Swan Lake or your special version of hip-hop or Abba's Dancing Queen, you will enjoy reduced stress levels, increased energy and improved strength. Try your favorite music while cleaning your house. I always clean my house with Barry White... It makes house cleaning so much more fun...



3. Blow bubbles Experience immediate and irrational childish pleasure. No bubble mixture? No problem...Take a time for a relaxing bubble bath in the evening in your own privacy and play with bubbles like you used to do as a kid.

4. Laugh when we chuckle, our body release a cocktail of hormones and chemicals that has a startlingly positive effect on our system. What funny videos, tell jokes to your friends, play funny games with kids...A good belly laugh can give you a powerful cardiac workout that oxygenates your internal organs, leaving you energized and restored.

5. Jump on the trampoline Don't worry about your wobbly bits. just experience the unadulterated fun of making fool of yourself. Bouncing around might be not dignified, but it will certainly get you giggling. It is also a fantastic heart-strentghening and muscle-toning exercise. Just make sure that your trampoline have a safety net and it stand steadily on the ground.

6. Splash in the puddles Why worry ii your shoes get wet. Better yet, dot it barefoot. Rediscover the unbridled childhood pleasure of making a mess, getting dirty - and loving it.
 I must say while on the road cycling towards the Santiago de Compostelle, on the last day, the only rainy day we past a village with wet cow pooh on the road that got us "muddy", so the only way to clean us was to cycle in to every large puddle on the road for next few kilometer's but oh my, was that fun...

7. Fly a kite It is both meditative and exhilarating pastime. When you have got a kite on a string, there is no reason to let a windy day keep you indoors.  Before gently tossing your kite into the sky with both hands, be sure to find a spot that is free from trees and power lines. Then enjoy the dips and dives that follow.




                  "BE AWARE OF WONDER. LIVE BALANCED LIFE
                  - LEARN SOME & THINK SOME & DRAW & PAINT &
                   SING & DANCE & PLAY & WORK EVERY DAY SOME"
                                    -Robert Fulghum-

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

THE HEALTHY FLAXSEED & OIL

This beautiful blue flower is the flower of the Flax, also known Common Flax or Lin, so basically linseeds and flaxseed are the same. Linseed oil is very well know for the use to protect wooden furniture, it is non toxic and give a good protection even for the garden furniture that stays outside in summertime. But linseeds or flaxseeds are much more. They are very rich in omega-3 fatty acids and they also contains omega-6 and 9. Flaxseeds contain about 37% of fibre which is excellent for your digestive system, it will help your bowel system to be more regular. They also help you to lower your cholesterol levels. Flaxseeds are very good for constipation.

Some nutritionists, researchers, and scientists believe that it could be the most important health-promoting supplement next to a multi-vitamin. Nearly every system in the body can benefit from flax seed oil's natural properties, including the cardiovascular system, immune system, circulatory system, reproductive system, nervous system, as well as joints.




Flaxseeds come with two different colours, the brown ones and then there is a golden flaxseeds as well. The omegas that the flaxseeds oil contains comes in a good balance for 4:1 for Omega-3 about 59% and Omega-6 about 15%. It has also about 15% of Omega-9 fatty acids. The seeds contain lignans, that helps to keep a healthy lining in your guts and prevent cancer. These are release when you  keep flaxseeds in the water over night you will get this "slimy"thing around the seeds in the morning, it might not look very nice but this one part of the fiber that is water soluble and helps your intestines to heal and the rest of the fiber will help you to digest better. Regular use of flaxseeds and oil is beneficial for your health and it will keep your digestive system in good balance.  You can use flaxseeds in the morning muslies, porridge, and smoothies.
I use them in my morning smoothies and if you want all the benefits of them, put a two soup spoons of flaxseeds/ person in a luke warm water in a glass over night, just enough water to cover the seeds. As I told you, you will find a slimy thick water next morning, but it has all the goodness of the flaxseeds. So use this in your smoothie or mix it in you oatmeal. This won't add any bad or funny taste in your meal.

For the morning smoothie you need:

Fresh or frozen berries
honey
soya milk
flaxseeds that has been in the water over night

If you wish to add other ingredients like maca powder, ginseng or guarana powder or even pollen, all these you will find in a health shop.

Mix all this in a mixer and drink straight away. When drinking this slowly and biting the small bits and pieces in it you will help your digestive system to start working and this way you will get more benefits. Your digestive system can absorb better all the nutriments, when saliva has already been mixed in our mouth. This works with every kind of food, that's why we always should eat slowly and only eat small bites at the time.


What comes to flaxseed oil, use it in your smoothies
or you can also ad it to your French salad sauce. Here
is a way how you can make your own healthy salad sauce.

You can choose between vinegars and oils that you use.

Freanch Salad sauce

1 tea spoon of Dijon mustard
Vine vinegar, apple cider vinegar or lemon juice
Olive oil or any nut oil
1-2 tea spoons  flaxseed oil
Glove of garlic
Shallot onion

Peel the onion and garlic, cut them in very small pieces. Take a small bowl and add your mustard in the bowl with 1 soup spoon of vinegar or lemon juice, mix it well. Then add 3 soup spoon of the oil of you choice (not your flaxseed oil). Alway try to keep you oil vinegar in 1:3. So if you want more sauce put 2 soup spoon of vinegar and the 6 spoons of oil. Add now you flaxseed oil. Mix well all together and add the onion and garlic. This is a best way to get a healthy salad sauce without any preservatives in it.

You can also find flaxseed oil capsules but I prefer to use the oil and seeds daily in my food. Just make sure that you will buy organic cold pressed flaxseed oil and organic seeds. It will be better for your health and for the nature too. A small green choice amongs of others...


Overview:

Flaxseed oil comes from the seeds of the flax plant (Linum usitatissimum, L.).Flaxseed oil contains both omega-3 and omega-6 fatty acids, which are needed for health. Flaxseed oil contains the essential fatty acid alpha-linolenic acid (ALA), which the body converts into eicosapentaenoic acid (EPA) and docosahexaenoic acid (DHA), the omega-3 fatty acids found in fish oil. Some researchers think that flaxseed oil might have some of the same benefits as fish oil, but the body isn' t very efficient at converting ALA into EPA and DHA. And the benefits of ALA, EPA, and DHA are not necessarily the same. Omega-3 fatty acids, usually from fish oil, have been shown to reduce inflammation and help prevent certain chronic diseases such as heart disease and arthritis. Studies are mixed about whether flaxseed oil is useful for the same conditions.
Getting a good balance of omega-3 and omega-6 fatty acids in the diet is important. These essential fats are both examples of polyunsaturated fatty acids, or PUFAs. Omega-3 fatty acids help reduce inflammation, while most omega-6 fatty acids tend to contribute to inflammation. A healthy diet should consist of roughly 2 - 4 times fewer omega-6 fatty acids than omega-3 fatty acids. The typical American diet, however, tends to contain 14 - 25 times more omega-6 fatty acids than omega-3 fatty acids. Many researchers believe this is a significant factor in the rising rate of inflammatory disorders in the United States.
Flaxseed -- but not flaxseed oil -- also contains a group of chemicals called lignans that may play a role in the prevention of cancer. Please see the flaxseed monograph for more information.

Overview from University of Maryland, USA

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

JANUARY NEWS LETTER

This my collage that I have made during the 28 days program and I am following my dreams...You can do that too...Get started straight away, don't wait any longer...

Dear Readers,

While writing this I am following my own new path...I can live in the beautiful country of Andorra, while working with people from the different countries...Online world is connecting more and more people and you will easily share the same interests...For me this year has started well and I am realizing some of my dreams right now...My program Your Second Spring is part of them...Soul Coaching has changed my life too...

Almost one month has past of this new year and one more year is behind you.
Has anything change in your life jet?
Have you keep any of the New Years resolutions?
What are the things you would like to change in your life?


Making changes in your life it's not always easy. But we can start with baby steps towards something better. Hectic life, stress, competition and negative situations and people suck all the positive energy of our life. To live a balanced life and to keep us healthy, we need to change our lifestyle. The body needs good nutriments to keep us physically moving, the mind and soul need peace and quiet time to help the whole body to relax. We all need to have an emotional check-up and tell to ourselves where we are emotionally at the moment.
We all have had turning points in our lives, but do you know which are yours and how they have affected you?
Sometimes we feel that we have made wrong choices in our lives but all what we choose has a purpose to serve us. Only that way we can grow.
To makes changes in our life we have to honestly analyze our life and be truthful for ourselves about it. What we really want from our life? Is our relationship working as we want to? What about our work, are we satisfied about it? Have you find a purpose in life? What you would like to change in your life?
All these are the questions that most of us thinking quite often. To have some answers for these questions we need quite and calm time to listen our soul. Your soul is your essence and it knows you better than anybody else. But do you know how to listen your soul?

The Soul Coaching program helps you to learn more about yourself. By going through the 28 days program you will help your self to get more balanced and by learning to tell the truth about yourself will help you to carry on with more positive thinking and it will open your life to something new. Your will get rid of physical and emotional clutter and your life will look much clearer to you. You will learn to live in the present, having memories of the past but not living in the past anymore. You will gain more joy of life and enjoy more small moment here and now. You will makes your dreams to happen in the future and not worrying about it any more.Your life will enter in to a new path...

I am grateful to all of you who are following my Your Second Spring blog and those one who has already started with the 28 day Your Second Spring program with Soul Coaching and Detox.


With Love
Jaana







Friday, December 10, 2010

MOODY HUES...COLOUR YOUR LIFE...

              Colour has a profound effect on you psyche, so choose shades that revive and revitalize
   


In your surroundings
The atmosphere of your home and workplace can be powerfully influenced by colours. Use pink and peach for soothing effects, yellow for energy and stimulation and blue for calmness and concentration. Complementary colours can be blended to create balance, for instance red and blue, yellow and violet, orange and indigo, green and pink. 


On your Plate

To achieve full balance in your diet, include all colours from the vegetables and fruits on to your plate, red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple...It will look good on your plate and you will get as much as possible of vitamins and minerals from your food. 


In your Wardrobe

Colour is powerful in matching your moods and needs. Many old cultures from Africa, Asia and Latin America has been using lots of colour on their everyday clothing. Some clothing even tells to what tribe you are belonging. But today we all have choice of colour and still so many just dresses in black and grey. For your emotional strength wear orange. Lilac and blues helps maintain calmness. Wear green to support your immune system. Pregnant women may favor orange and blue clothing, as orange is the colour corresponding to the area which the baby is growing, and blue enchants the quality of motherhood. 

YOUR SECOND SPRING VIDEO

Sunday, November 28, 2010

TO HAVE AND HOLD

                  Hugging is a lovely way to show you care. It's also a proven stress-reliever. 


Revive your togetherness. If you have a particularly difficult day of deadlines and drama ahead of you, don't get worked up. Rather get up close and personal, because warm intense hug can greatly reduce the harmful physical effects of stress. According to studies conducted at the Touch Research Institute in America, wrapping your arms around your partner can lower your body's output of cortisol ( a dangerous stress hormone that drives up your heart rate and blood pressure) and create a surge of feel-good brain chemicals instead.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

DINNER IS HERBED!


Kick-start your taste buds with fresh sprigs in your meals. You do not have to be a gourmet chef to increase your appreciation of the aroma and taste of herbs in food. All it takes is a little experimentation. Ensure your herbs don't overpower the dish. Start with the small quantities and add more if you so desire, and as your experience grows. Each herb has its own unique flavor and aroma that complements certain foods, and combines well with other particular herbs. Fresh herbs are almost invariably preferable to dried herbs, which lose a lot of volume and essential oils in the drying process.
Herbs can be used as "medicine". Fresh herbs have many good qualities to help your body system to cope against certain symptoms or it can help you to prevent illnesses. Herbs were used much more in a old day medicines. One of the most famous doctor that used nature to heal the body and prevent it to get sick was Alfred Vogel. We all know his Vogel products that many health shops and even chemist sell today. He said: " The nature, is the best doctor".

When you buy fresh herbs choose the ones that looks really fresh. You can mix herbs in your salads and here some advise how to use certain herbs easily in your food.

Basil
Fresh basil goes well any kind of dish with tomatoes. Sprinkle torn fresh basil leaves on your tomato salad or in your tomato soup. You can mix basil into a marinade of oil and garlic.

Mint
Mint leaves can be used for herbal teas: put few mint leaves on your mug and add hot water, let it cool down. This type of tea can be drink cool during the summer. After dinner it will help you digest. Mint goes well with Mediterranian food and same as other herbs you can add some torn leaves in your green salad. Fresh sauce for fish can be a yogurt/mint sauce.


Rosemary
Rosemary is very good for your blood circulation. It can be used in many vegetable dishes and with meat, fish and chicken. You can add rosemary in your soups and sauces as well.

Persil
This herb will help you kidneys to cleanse. Make persil tea same way than mint tea. drink this tea at least ones a day and it will help you to detox your kidneys.
Persil is excellent on top of the potato dishes and in soups. Always ad it at last don't let it boil, this will keep it fresh taste and as all the other herbs you can add some persil in your green salads. It contains a lot of vitamin A and C. It also contains vitamin B12 which is important for the red blood cell development.


Thyme
Thyme is excellent herb for cooking and it has calming effect on your digestive system. It can also be used in fresh salad.

Cumin, Coriander, Fennel, Anis and Aneth
Some of these herbs we can used the part of the plant and all of them have seeds that can be used in cooking. They are said to be warming seed spices that helps your digestive system. They also helps agains cold and infections. A mild fennel or anise tea helps the babies digestive problems.  Fennel tea has cleansing properties and it will help you for water retention, it has mild diuretic effect.

If possible make your own small herb garden at you home. In wintertime you can keep few pots next to your window and in summer you can plant your herbs in your garden or if you have a balcony. It is fun and you will always have some fresh herbs. Go and visit a garden center next to your home and ask the personal there to give you some  advise how to grow your own herbs. Growing your herbs at you home you will also have a nice fragrance in your kitchen. There are so many different herbs just try new ones and experiment them in your everyday cooking. And try to grow your own, it's fun for you and for your children too, you can teach them that some plants can be eaten and they are healthy too.





Tuesday, October 5, 2010

5 WAYS TO REVIVE YOUR SENSES

Enrich your awareness of everyday tastes, 
sights and sounds to enhance your enjoyment of life.



  1. Open up to pleasure 
Sensuous living is about creating sensory moments that give you pleasure. Allow your senses to absorb to their fullest. You will find yourself completely in the moment, in the now -and that is the only time we are truly happy and in our natural state. Appreciating more of the world around us adds to the quality of our lives.

     2.  Practise the art

It may take time to build this new awareness into your life, so ones a week, set aside a few hours to be fully aware of your senses. As you walk into to work, acknowledge the colour of the sky. Feel the wind against your cheeks, notice the crunch of the gravel beneath your feet. At home, try something as simple as baking bread. Enjoy the eight of the dough as you knead, appreciate the smell of the freshly baked loaf when open the owen. Delight in the taste sensation of the hot buttered slice.

   3.  Appreciate beauty

Surround yourself with objects you find beautiful - a fragrant bunch of flowers, an exquisite shell, a delicate glass. Incorporate things that speak to you sensual self - textures, colours, music and scents. In the bathroom, use fluffy towels, scented candles and rose petals to transform your space into an uplifting haven. Shower with invigorating herbal shower gel, you can add some essential oils to you shower gel. In the bath you could share the pleasure with your partner. Step into the warm water with awareness. As you lather up, enjoy the tingling feeling on your skin, millimeter by millimeter. 

   4. Learn to listen

Pay attention to natural sounds around you, and don't neglect the sound of others. Each of us is a product of our upbringing, culture and life experiences. Even if aren't aware of it, this uniqueness can sometimes be an obstacle when it comes to being an effective listener. Try to remain open to what your daughter, friend or colleague is saying, and withhold evaluation or judgement. Become aware of what your triggers are in the communication process and what shuts your listening down.

  5. Feel healthier

Living sensually triggers endorphins, the natural hormones responsible for the physical sensations of pleasure. They also anesthetize pain and strengthen your immune system.




Sunday, September 19, 2010

MEDIA BRAKE...

Detox your mind and soul by keeping a media brake. Most of us read the newspaper in the morning. On the way home from work, we likely to tune into a news bulletin on the radio too. Some people are listening the radio the whole day at work. So instead choose a nice music chanel. Given the often unsettling and tragic headlines we are fed. It's no wonder we feel anxious at times. Just for a week, try focusing only on the good news and nice soothing music that suites you. Cut your TV watching time in half and only watch positive programs, no news, no crime series, just funny and anything that you can maybe learn something new.
Tune out and made a date with your CD collection. The right piece of your favorite music in the evening makes you calmer and relaxes you. Soothing, calm music can have a profound and immediate effect on your stress levels. After a week you feel much better...

RELAXING BATH

Have a bath treatment at home...Your sense of smell is directly linked to the limbic system in your brain- the seat of emotion. this explains the extraordinary power fragrance has over your body and mind. indulge in a aromatic bath with some bath salts and aromatherapy oils and light few candles around you.
Cocoon your soul in the fragrant pleasure of a perfect bath... Close the door...Close your eyes. Breathe in the calming scents of essential oils and herbs. breath out stresses of the day. Relaxing in a warm bath relieves sore muscles and joints, reduces tress, and promotes a good night's sleep. Add soothing music, soft lighting and a bath with lavender and chamomile essential oils to calm your senses. You can create a real spa experience in the privacy of your own home.

There must be quite a few things that a hot bath won't cure,
but I don't know many of them
-sylvia plath

Monday, September 13, 2010

JUST IMAGINE...

...How wonderfully restful it would be to get a good night's sleep. If you find it difficult to drift off, try this once you have switched off the lights. Imagine yourself on an island at twilight. Feel the warm evening breeze against your skin, carrying with it the sweet perfume of delicate flowers. Look at the darkening water and listen to the rhythmic sound of the lapping waves. taste the faint traces of salt and sand on your skin. The more vivid your visualisation, and the more senses you involve, the more effective it will be.

Sunday, September 12, 2010

6 WAYS TO RELAX YOUR BODY & MIND



Feeling tense, irritable and overstretched? Pause for a minute...And breath...Deeply...And then experiment with these slow-down ideas...


1. EXAMINE YOUR EVENING

Skimping on sleep affects your stress levels and immune system. Leaving you sluggish, forgetful and tense. Aim for at least seven hours of sleep every night, and if your schedule allows it, a 20 minute power nap in the afternoon too. Remember, rest and relaxation go hand in hand. Have an effective wind-down routine, which includes switching off the TV at least an hour before you climb in to your bed. And avoid heavy meals and alcohol shortly before turning in.

2. GO THE HERBAL ROUTE

Try a few drops of lavender essential oil on your pillow at night to encourage restful sleep. When you feel stressed during the day, inhale a few drops of basil, clary sage, lavender and sandalwood essential oils on a tissue. If your anxiety is also accompanied by a headache or muscular tension, add drops of marjoram and chamomile. A soothing soak in a scented bath with few drop of these oils in the bath water can also aid relaxation.

3. STROKE A CAT

Or hug a dog. Animal "therapy" is powerful medicine, and a wealth of research shows that close contact with a much-loved pet can greatly reduce your anxiety levels.

4. EXPRESS YOURSELF

When certain feelings are uncomfortable for you, pick up a pen. Putting things down on paper is a healthy way of releasing emotions you don't want to express physically. Writing is a way to rid yourself negativity and anger, but it's also therapeutic tool for self awareness. As you commit words to paper, you begin to observe your patterns and wrestle with your demons. Writing helps you to explore concepts like forgiveness, courage and authenticity.

5. MEDITATE

Find a comfortable spot and sit or lie on your back . Choose a specific word that has positive connotations for you - a mantra, of sorts- and close your eyes. Next start consciously relaxing your muscles. Begin with your toes. Feel them loosen up, work through your feet, legs and torso, and all the way up to your head. Breathe deeply and slowly, and repeat the chosen word on every exhalation. After five minutes you should be able to sense the tightness leaving your body.

6. REMEMBER TO BREATHE

Give yourself the gift of 10 minutes. Lie down on your bed, or on a towel on the floor, with your feet about 50 cm apart. Your head and your neck should be aligned with your back. Close your eyes and practise diaphragmatic breathing with your hand gently resting on your abdomen. Ensure your chest isn't doing all the work. Concentrate on the rhythm of your breathing, until it becomes smooth and regular.

LIFE IS A JOURNEY

  Life is a journey. An ongoing adventure of fresh insights, big challenges and daily discoveries. All of us     
seek   balance and harmony as we navigate our path. I will be posting about how to learn simple ways to relax, revive, restore and refresh your mind, body and soul.

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

MINDFULNESS MEDITATION


Mindfulness meditation is not about achieving bliss or tranquility. Rather, its aim is to see things as they really are more clearly. This meditation is a form of "mind training". It will help you to bring awareness to the thing or a moment. To really notice what's happening right now. For example: often when you are drinking coffee or tea... How much attention you bring to the beverage that you have in your cup? Most of the time you are busy doing other things and the cup is "just there", like my green tea cup right now next to my computer. I am drinking tea while typing but my mind is in the words and not in the aroma and the warmth of the tea... So next time you making for yourself a cup of tea or coffee, smell the aroma of your tea or coffee, hold the cup between your two hands and feel the warmth of it. Feel how you drink taste, enjoy it, enjoy the moment. Forget everything else. Just have a "relationship" with you cup. Your will get more out of your short coffee or tea brake. This next meditation will help you to find a way to be more in the moment and you will learn to observe with awareness and perceive more accurately what your experience really is.
Start with 5 minutes daily. Gradually add a few minutes to your session each day until you can sit for 20 minutes.

  1. Sit in a comfortable position on a pillow, chair, couch or floor.
  2. Listen to the sounds around you while you relax. Practice letting the sounds come and go without holding on to them or pushing them way.
  3. As you inhale think "in" and as you exhale, think "out". Let this action be a kind of home base.
  4. When your mind drifts and thoughts starts to wander, pay attention what comes up. You may be aware of a pain in your shoulder for intense, or think about the argument from the night before. Acknowledges this thought and feeling, spend a moment with it and then bring your awareness gently back in to your home base. Rather than rushing past the new sensations you experience, bring your full awareness to them.
  5. If you find yourself getting stuck in an emotion or sensation, it may help to put a mental label on it, to identify it as "anger" or "pain". Then bring your awareness back to your breath.
  6. The traditional way to end this meditation is to acknowledge the positive energy you have created and to dedicate it to yourself and others. Try to practice this meditation everyday.

Friday, August 20, 2010

BASIC BREATHING MEDITATION


Breathing is the cornerstone of all kind of meditation techniques, this practice centers on something we always do but rarely notice: good quality breathing. You do not need to do anything with your breath but observe it first. Eventually you can work on changing your breath, and sending it into new areas of you torso. But at first, just become aware of each inhalation and exhalation; let your mind track how the breath moved, mapping where it goes to develop an understanding of your own unique "breathing identity"

You can even try breathing while wearing earplugs to amplify the internal sound of your breath and to block any distracting noises.

This breathing meditation is easy to do anytime and anywhere and you will get centered easily. "you can retreat to your breath whenever you are feeling dull, tired or stressed out. You can start with few minutes first and build it up to twenty minutes. The best way to do it is to be in a place you can relax and have a open window or good air quality.

How to do it?



  1. Sit your legs crossed or lie down on your back and keep your body straight. Have a firm pillow or rolled towel under your knees. Your arms should rest about 45 degrees from your torso.
  2. Breath quietly in and out through your nose, feel each breath as it moves through your torso. Feel where in your body the breath is moving and where it is not.
  3. Begin to notice how your breath changes as you focus on it, and how your awareness changes in turn. 
  4. When your mind begin to drift, gently bring it back to your breath.
  5. Begin to bring your breath to areas of you body that feel dull or "un-breathed". Imagine your torso as a container, and try actively sending breath into the places it's not reaching, such as your pelvis or bottom part of your stomach area. Don't force the breath, just allow it to follow your consciousness. 
  6. At the end of the session, wiggle your fingers and your toes, then stretch your arms and legs, if you are lying down, roll over to one side and pose before pushing up to a seated position. Roll up slowly, leading up you torso and raising your head last.
  7. Have a glass of room temperature water and drink it slowly.
This meditation exercise will help you to detoxify your lungs and oxygenate your blood stream. It will also calm you down and help you to prepare yourself for a good night sleep.



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